Transformation is in the air! Transforming is as inevitable as change in the ever evolving and devolving world of the morphic field of our existence.
At Transformative World you will have the opportunity to consciously transform your life in a variety of ways.
Included on this site are solutions if you are:
• Looking for the love of your life: Calling in “The One”
• Perched to soar through harnessing your Feminine Power
• Experiencing the pain of heartbreak: Conscious Uncoupling
• Longing to release chronic tension in your body forever: Transformative bodywork
• Ready to step into your Career Success Destiny
Out Beyond Ideas
Out beyond ideas
of wrongdoing and right doing,
there is a field.
I’ll meet you there.
When the soul lies down
in that grass,
the world is too full to talk about.
-even the phrase “each other”
do not make any sense.
Hugging and touching holiday greetings from Marilyn Hager Adleman, Transformative Coach and bodyworker!
My husband and I are in NJ with his family for the Thanksgiving holiday. After sharing a spontaneous hug with Dad, he turned and fumbled through some papers on his desk and handed me this little article:
“Experts say hugging is a miracle medicine that can relieve physical and emotional problems. Psychiatrists are convinced that hugs and personal touch have astounding therapeutic effects. Researchers have found when a person is touched, the amount of hemoglobin in their blood increases significantly. Hemoglobin is part of the blood that carries vital supplies of oxygen to all organs of the body, toning up the whole body, helping to prevent disease and speeding recovery from illness. It has been found that people who are hugged or touched often stop taking medication to fall asleep, it eases stress and tension in today’s troubled time. So go out and hug someone today…we will all be the richer for it while enjoying the fun of hugging.”
Have a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday if you are in the US and celebrate such things!
Call 310.844.7548 for more information about Transformative coaching with Marilyn Hager Adleman or visit www.callinginthelove.com and www.empoweryourfeminine.com
During a recent discussion with my evolutionary group mates in Craig Hamilton’s Living on the Edge of Evolution master course, I posted this exploration that I would like to share here:
As I look deep within myself and turn toward the impulse that is compelling me to grow and evolve, I realize how important it is to come into right relationship with clarity to reality as it is. Spiritual literature and practices throughout many cultures and dogmas allude to veils and illusions that prevent me from being able to discern Reality with a capital “R.”
How possible is it, really, to clear away all of the distorting filters and see what Reality actually is? If I don’t constantly focus beyond them, the multi-dimensionally layered veils cloud my mind, distract my heart, contract my body and push my higher spiritual knowing out beyond my grasp.
I know in my more polished awareness that clarity and action in alignment with my deepest yearnings is the key to manifestation. When I make space for the parts of my awareness that long for the higher evolutionary potential to emerge, so many impulses swirl through me. Creativity overflows through my being.
I feel conflicted, for on the one hand, if I don’t grab hold of one idea, one notion, one inspiration, clarity doesn’t have a chance. It all becomes inspiration soup, savory and alluring, but not potently manifesting in any tangible form.
And yet, we are instructed to sit in silence and allow everything to unfold in our consciousness without giving special notice of any one thing, just allowing everything to be exactly as it is. I wonder if this is a purification process, a filtering of all that vies for my attention and that which reoccurs to me after I leave the meditation moment has made it through the sieve, presenting itself with a more pristine clarity?
If enlightenment is a metaphor about coming into clarity, wisdom and light, no wonder the world is muted and grey when looking out through the distortion of the veils. No wonder some days find me stumbling around as if my legs are plowing through deep snow, as I forge a path through the jungle of my zip-zapping mind and untangle the worries of my troubled heart.
“Let it go…let it all go…allow for the space to beckon in what is longing to emerge.” This has become my mantra when the veils of the moment try to take over and distort my path.
And so, I sit quietly every morning, I listen for the impulse throughout the day, I feed my body fresh, organic foods and drink my rich, yummy seaweed and aloe cherry drink. I move through space, deliberately utilizing the power of my muscles to keep my vessel strong. I rinse my nose with salt water and Colloidal Silver. I spend time outside in the fresh mountain air. I force my head to lay upon my pillow at night at a reasonable time. All of this I do for the sake of deliberately causing energy to perpetuate its flow through a path that is unobstructed and offers clarity.
Yes, clarity and alignment are the keys to awakening, the keys to success, the keys to manifestation of my destiny.
When I sense into this idea of clarity in alignment with others who are also seeking to know with clarity, the boundaries expand, the walls fall down and the one mind takes us to realms beyond our wildest imaginings. Our destinies merge and anything is possible. This is the life that I stand for co-creating.
Craig Hamilton’s Collective Awakening:
The first time I experienced a sense of connection with all and everyone in the “We Space” was during an experiment that I was participating in as faculty at a spiritual community named the Lama Foundation in Northern New Mexico, USA, in the early 1980s. Ram Dass was leading a week-long intensive and we had gathered to share a meal. He was chanting the Halleluiah Chorus and we all joined in as we shuffled along the food line…we were outside in the warm and refreshing summer air, under a big domed sky that reached beyond a vast mountain range at 8600ft. None of us were trained vocalists, yet our voices seemed so loud and powerfully connected to something much bigger than us that it felt as though we were experiencing the most well-engineered acoustics of a famous concert hall. Our voices were giving expression to the oneness and connection we all felt, beyond any one of our own separate egos…
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I have also noticed this collective awareness when I witness my daughter and her husband play drums and dance to African rhythms in their performance group. I feel the undulating waves of communication between them infuse my body and we all become one…
In July, 2012, I experienced this collective awareness at the Feminine Power Mastery end-of-session live intensive. It was amazing to to take part in the exercises that transported us to this zone, first with the core leaders of about 20 people, then we were joined by another group of the next level of leaders within the same field the next day and two days later, the rest of the assembled community stepped into the field we had been building until there were about 150 of us all experiencing an extraordinary level of oneness.
It was amazing to witness how the levels of hierarchy flattened out within a container of safety, peace and oneness. At the very end, we created a circle and faced out to send a wave of this awareness beyond us and into the rest of the world. I was quite moved and felt exceptionally comforted.
Just last weekend, a varied group of twelve women whose experience, ranging from several years of engagement with Katherine Woodward Thomas and Claire Zammit in the Feminine Power Community to several who had only heard about their work and wanted to know, in my living room to experience this collective awakening through the filter of the Feminine Power lens with amazingly powerful results.
My sense of what caused and catalyzed this collective opening:
The Ram Dass experience: We had become so unified within the practices and teachings we were experiencing together, at that moment when the preparations for the meal were complete, the quality of the environment so peaceful and powerful at the same time, our essences came into a cohesive vibrational field, a sense came over us that the deeper truth of us was connected with the deeper truth of everyone there.
African Dance and Drumming Ensemble: They are all so rooted in their own proficiency, so deeply connected with their own sense of the rhythm moving through each one of them, that the cohesion between them is infectious, and I catch the energetic wave between them. It is a multi-dimensional experience.
Feminine Power live intensive: We had been sharing the evolutionary edge for 9 months, so we were already very connected, but the exercises within the safe container of our bonded awareness created a powerful resource for this opportunity. That we started with the most bonded, advanced group stepping into the experience of collective awareness first was also a powerful catalyst. Then with that in place, aligning the next group with the evolving frequency, watching it rise even further and become more powerful was really astounding. Finally, it was easiest for the next group to catch the wave. At one point, with all of us riding the wave together, the conversation went so deep and so wide, that the PA system made a super loud booming sound and the electricity grid in the small beach town where the retreat was held went down for several hours…we pondered, wondering if it was the third big bang in the awakening of human consciousness… Who knows? Maybe…
This experiment with collective awakening, collective intelligence, the “We Space” promises to provide a container for the consciousness of humanity to step into a whole new level of integrity, deep connection and, ultimately peace beyond present understanding. I pray that world leaders will learn to stand in this place, to drop power-mongering, chest-pounding and ego-justification practices so that we can all learn to feel so self-empowered that we lead ourselves from the deepest truth of who we all came here to be.
The effects of Feminine Power on our marriages can result in very positive outcomes once we learn how to communicate in a deeply related way. At first glance, the idea of feminine power can be threatening to a marriage if not understood for the balance it can bring to increase the health and well-being of both partners. I was recently asked for guidance from one of my clients who was feeling concerns with difficulties she was noticing in her marriage—mostly needs which were unmet and ways that she realized she had ignored things in the past.
I well understood this concern about the relationship shake-up. This was one of my own challenges early on in embracing this body of work, as well. I was deeply concerned because I really love my husband and didn’t want to sacrifice our connection for my awakening evolution. I worried that I would grow beyond him, and fortunately, he stepped up in a really awesome way.
I was so happy to realize that, in order to change our outer world, we must take 100% responsibility for who we are being for ourselves that is being mirrored back to us in all of our relationships and our partners are our biggest mirrors because of our level of intimacy: physically, emotionally and spiritually.
It was really helpful to our relationship to have my husband start speaking through the same vernacular and filtering everything through the same lenses that we use in this work.
I wonder, do you think your partner would be open to understanding the structures we are reorganizing our perception of life around in the Feminine Power work if we didn’t call it Feminine? Because, actually, what we are essentially talking about balance: beckoning forth our masculine qualities when we need to be organized to build a structure and feminine in service to providing creative thought and inspiration to the overall vision and artistic details.
My husband was very relieved when I explained it all to him in this way and we have now both become much more balanced as individuals and our relationship echoes the same balance of power and inspiration.
For more information about Feminine Power coaching with Marilyn Hager Adleman, visit www.EmpowerYourFeminine.com or call 310.844.7548 for a complimentary 30-minute consultation.
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This week we spent the end of our 9-month Mastery adventure in deep contemplation, together in the same room and live streaming throughout the world. We explored the intricacies of the inter-subjective field of awareness that is present between us in every moment. We made a concerted effort to let go of all that we knew ourselves to be, to listen to another from a place of deep curiosity and a level of rapt attention, recognizing everything they brought forth as the very most important sharing that would every be made present. We stayed in the exploration of each exact moment and noticed what we were aware of.
What came forward was at once pertinent and expansive beyond the beyond… “I am noticing that who I am at the deepest places is the same as who you are… ultimately, that we all are being who we came here to be, effortlessly taking actions in alignment with and as an expression of life’s longing to evolve through us. As we do this, everyone is exactly where they are best meant to be, knowing what they know and knowing something new in the next moment as life unfolds with a deeper understanding of the impulse to evolve through each person’s unique expression of their innate gifts, talents and offerings.
The space was at once expanded and safe, relaxed and alive… Wow!
For more information about Feminine Power Sr. Coach Marilyn Hager Adleman, visit www.empoweryourfeminine.com and download a 30-minute audio “10 Tips for Navigating Your Journey to Thriving.” Call 310.844.7548 for a complimentary 30-minute introductory Feminine Power coaching session.
Feminine Power Sr. Coach Marilyn Hager Adleman shares her experiences of transforming and evolving Feminine Radiance.
Through the Feminine Power process I have realized the truth of my own value. When I listen to my soul’s unique message to inform every action I take, I provide the invaluable offering of who I came here to be. From here, my value ignites the value of others to shine forward in co-creative partnership. Together we support the full flourishing of each other and create a world of radiance that is so much brighter than we could ever create alone.
Before deepening into the Feminine Power message, I made choices and took actions that were inconsistent with this deeper truth of my value. When I first began this work, I was just entering menopause. I had recently met and married the love of my life. This relationship was different than any other in that I was more attracted to his inner being than to his physical being and I felt loved with a depth of honesty toward and from him that I had never experienced before. I had always sourced great power from sexuality, but that resource began to shift. My body changed drastically, even though I wasn’t living my life any differently. I aged ten years in two and lost the intense sexual drive that had defined and fueled much of how I acted and what I thought about. At first, I was really disoriented by this and I felt old, used up and dimmed down as my sense of power in the world diminished by the day.
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After really understanding the Feminine Power teachings, I began to make new choices and take new actions that reflected a deeper level of congruence and integrity with my own value. As I broke up these beliefs, I began to turn toward the deeper truth of my soul’s reasons for being here, found more purpose in life and shifted my source of power to be fueled by the messages that I was receiving from my unique expression of life through my deeper center. Fears did come up in making myself available to be fully visible, extended and authentically radiant in the world, so I went on a very focused inquiry about why I was being so extremely affected by the aging process and I took the deep dive into a firmly held belief that I had to be beautiful and sexy to be loved. As I systematically worked the practices, I visited the memories of my childhood and loved-up the broken heart of my lonely little girl who longed for her verbally and emotionally abusive, womanizing father’s unrequited loving attention. I processed the woundings of the promiscuity of my “liberated hippy” college girl who was looking for her father’s love in the arms of more men than I can remember. I healed the cellular memories of being burned at the stake for the magic of my knowing through the lineage of my wise and intuitive grandmothers. I learned to trust that I could be safe with other women and even partner with them without needing to feel competitive. I developed my healer and counselor and deepened my artistic skills and offerings. I have created new ways of sourcing safety for myself that have liberated me to begin to shine my radiance brightly and come into the fullness of my power in the world. When I share intimacy with my husband, it is from a place of deep care and celebration of our connection rather than the intense need for sexual gratification to feel good about myself. I am older, more wrinkled and less sexy than I used to be and that is okay. Who I used to be doesn’t hold a candle to the inner radiance that I feel flowing from my heart and out of my eyes, allowing me to touch the hearts of others, without agenda, from a place of honest curiosity and encouragement for them to be all that they came here to be. I feel so much more at peace, very vibrant and am now aware of being fueled by an illuminant ball of golden light, filled with all of the love that I have ever known that supports me whenever my heart’s light begins to dim. It points me to the soft underbelly of the next false belief with compassion for the details of my humanness and holds my Younger Self until she can relax in this love and allow me to turn again toward the messages of my soul’s longing to fulfill my many purposes for being a spiritual being in human form.
For more information about Feminine Power Sr. Coach Marilyn Hager Adleman, visit www.empoweryourfeminine.com and download a 30-minute audio “10 Tips for Navigating Your Journey to Thriving.”
Call 310.844.7548 for a complimentary 30-minute introductory Feminine Power coaching session.