Clarity on the Edge of Evolution: Marilyn Hager Adleman, Transformative Coach

Posted by admin on Oct 4, 2012 in Feminine Power, Transformation | 4 comments

During a recent discussion with my evolutionary group mates in Craig Hamilton’s Living on the Edge of Evolution master course, I posted this exploration that I would like to share here:

As I look deep within myself and turn toward the impulse that is compelling me to grow and evolve, I realize how important it is to come into right relationship with clarity to reality as it is. Spiritual literature and practices throughout many cultures and dogmas allude to veils and illusions that prevent me from being able to discern Reality with a capital “R.”

How possible is it, really, to clear away all of the distorting filters and see what Reality actually is? If I don’t constantly focus beyond them, the multi-dimensionally layered veils cloud my mind, distract my heart, contract my body and push my higher spiritual knowing out beyond my grasp.

I know in my more polished awareness that clarity and action in alignment with my deepest yearnings is the key to manifestation. When I make space for the parts of my awareness that long for the higher evolutionary potential to emerge, so many impulses swirl through me. Creativity overflows through my being.

I feel conflicted, for on the one hand, if I don’t grab hold of one idea, one notion, one inspiration, clarity doesn’t have a chance. It all becomes inspiration soup, savory and alluring, but not potently manifesting in any tangible form.

And yet, we are instructed to sit in silence and allow everything to unfold in our consciousness without giving special notice of any one thing, just allowing everything to be exactly as it is. I wonder if this is a purification process, a filtering of all that vies for my attention and that which reoccurs to me after I leave the meditation moment has made it through the sieve, presenting itself with a more pristine clarity?

If enlightenment is a metaphor about coming into clarity, wisdom and light, no wonder the world is muted and grey when looking out through the distortion of the veils. No wonder some days find me stumbling around as if my legs are plowing through deep snow, as I forge a path through the jungle of my zip-zapping mind and untangle the worries of my troubled heart.

“Let it go…let it all go…allow for the space to beckon in what is longing to emerge.” This has become my mantra when the veils of the moment try to take over and distort my path.

And so, I sit quietly every morning, I listen for the impulse throughout the day, I feed my body fresh, organic foods and drink my rich, yummy seaweed and aloe cherry drink. I move through space, deliberately utilizing the power of my muscles to keep my vessel strong. I rinse my nose with salt water and Colloidal Silver. I spend time outside in the fresh mountain air. I force my head to lay upon my pillow at night at a reasonable time. All of this I do for the sake of deliberately causing energy to perpetuate its flow through a path that is unobstructed and offers clarity.

Yes, clarity and alignment are the keys to awakening, the keys to success, the keys to manifestation of my destiny.

When I sense into this idea of clarity in alignment with others who are also seeking to know with clarity, the boundaries expand, the walls fall down and the one mind takes us to realms beyond our wildest imaginings. Our destinies merge and anything is possible. This is the life that I stand for co-creating.

Collective Awakening: Feminine Power Coach Marilyn Hager Adleman

Posted by admin on Sep 10, 2012 in Transformation | 6 comments

Craig Hamilton’s Collective Awakening: 

The first time I experienced a sense of connection with all and everyone in the “We Space” was during an experiment that I was participating in as faculty at a spiritual community named the Lama Foundation in Northern New Mexico, USA, in the early 1980s. Ram Dass was leading a week-long intensive and we had gathered to share a meal. He was chanting the Halleluiah Chorus and we all joined in as we shuffled along the food line…we were outside in the warm and refreshing summer air, under a big domed sky that reached beyond a vast mountain range at 8600ft. None of us were trained vocalists, yet our voices seemed so loud and powerfully connected to something much bigger than us that it felt as though we were experiencing the most well-engineered acoustics of a famous concert hall. Our voices were giving expression to the oneness and connection we all felt, beyond any one of our own separate egos…

The Effects of Feminine Power on Our Marriages: Feminine Power Coach Marilyn Hager Adleman

Posted by admin on Aug 3, 2012 in Feminine Power | 5 comments

The effects of Feminine Power on our marriages can result in very positive outcomes once we learn how to communicate in a deeply related way.  At first glance, the idea of feminine power can be threatening to a marriage if not understood for the balance it can bring to increase the health and well-being of both partners. I was recently asked for guidance from one of my clients who was feeling concerns with difficulties she was noticing in her marriage—mostly needs which were unmet and ways that she realized she had ignored things in the past.

I well understood this concern about  the relationship shake-up. This was one of my own challenges early on in embracing this body of work, as well. I was deeply concerned because I really love my husband and didn’t want to sacrifice our connection for my awakening evolution. I worried that I would grow beyond him, and fortunately, he stepped up in a really awesome way.

I was so happy to realize that, in order to change our outer world, we must take 100% responsibility for who we are being for ourselves that is being mirrored back to us in all of our relationships and our partners are our biggest mirrors because of our level of intimacy: physically, emotionally and spiritually.

It was really helpful to our relationship to have my husband start speaking through the same vernacular and filtering everything through the same lenses that we use in this work.

I wonder, do you think your partner would be open to understanding the structures we are reorganizing our perception of life around in the Feminine Power work if we didn’t call it Feminine? Because, actually, what we are essentially talking about balance: beckoning forth our masculine qualities when we need to be organized to build a structure and feminine in service to providing creative thought and inspiration to the overall vision and artistic details.

My husband was very relieved when I explained it all to him in this way and we have now both become much more balanced as individuals and our relationship echoes the same balance of power and inspiration.

For more information about Feminine Power coaching with Marilyn Hager Adleman, visit www.EmpowerYourFeminine.com or call 310.844.7548 for a complimentary 30-minute consultation.

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Transformative Coach Marilyn Hager Adleman: Reflections from My Center of the Inter-subjective Field

Posted by admin on Jul 20, 2012 in Transformation | 4 comments

This week we spent the end of our 9-month Mastery adventure in deep contemplation, together in the same room and live streaming throughout the world. We explored the intricacies of the inter-subjective field of awareness that is present between us in every moment. We made a concerted effort to let go of all that we knew ourselves to be, to listen to another from a place of deep curiosity and a level of rapt attention, recognizing everything they brought forth as the very most important sharing that would every be made present. We stayed in the exploration of each exact moment and noticed what we were aware of.
What came forward was at once pertinent and expansive beyond the beyond… “I am noticing that who I am at the deepest places is the same as who you are… ultimately, that we all are being who we came here to be, effortlessly taking actions in alignment with and as an expression of life’s longing to evolve through us. As we do this, everyone is exactly where they are best meant to be, knowing what they know and knowing something new in the next moment as life unfolds with a deeper understanding of the impulse to evolve through each person’s unique expression of their innate gifts, talents and offerings.

The space was at once expanded and safe, relaxed and alive… Wow!

For more information about Feminine Power Sr. Coach Marilyn Hager Adleman, visit www.empoweryourfeminine.com and download a 30-minute audio “10 Tips for Navigating Your Journey to Thriving.” Call 310.844.7548 for a complimentary 30-minute introductory Feminine Power coaching session.

Feminine Power Sr. Coach Marilyn Hager Adleman: On Feminine Radiance

Posted by admin on Apr 28, 2012 in Feminine Power | 1 comment

Feminine Power Sr. Coach Marilyn Hager Adleman shares her experiences of transforming and evolving Feminine Radiance.

Through the Feminine Power process I have realized the truth of my own value. When I listen to my soul’s unique message to inform every action I take, I provide the invaluable offering of who I came here to be. From here, my value ignites the value of others to shine forward in co-creative partnership. Together we support the full flourishing of each other and create a world of radiance that is so much brighter than we could ever create alone.

Before deepening into the Feminine Power message, I made choices and took actions that were inconsistent with this deeper truth of my value. When I first began this work, I was just entering menopause. I had recently met and married the love of my life. This relationship was different than any other in that I was more attracted to his inner being than to his physical being and I felt loved with a depth of honesty toward and from him that I had never experienced before. I had always sourced great power from sexuality, but that resource began to shift. My body changed drastically, even though I wasn’t living my life any differently. I aged ten years in two and lost the intense sexual drive that had defined and fueled much of how I acted and what I thought about. At first, I was really disoriented by this and I felt old, used up and dimmed down as my sense of power in the world diminished by the day.