The Effects of Feminine Power on Our Marriages: Feminine Power Coach Marilyn Hager Adleman
The effects of Feminine Power on our marriages can result in very positive outcomes once we learn how to communicate in a deeply related way. At first glance, the idea of feminine power can be threatening to a marriage if not understood for the balance it can bring to increase the health and well-being of both partners. I was recently asked for guidance from one of my clients who was feeling concerns with difficulties she was noticing in her marriage—mostly needs which were unmet and ways that she realized she had ignored things in the past.
I well understood this concern about the relationship shake-up. This was one of my own challenges early on in embracing this body of work, as well. I was deeply concerned because I really love my husband and didn’t want to sacrifice our connection for my awakening evolution. I worried that I would grow beyond him, and fortunately, he stepped up in a really awesome way.
I was so happy to realize that, in order to change our outer world, we must take 100% responsibility for who we are being for ourselves that is being mirrored back to us in all of our relationships and our partners are our biggest mirrors because of our level of intimacy: physically, emotionally and spiritually.
It was really helpful to our relationship to have my husband start speaking through the same vernacular and filtering everything through the same lenses that we use in this work.
I wonder, do you think your partner would be open to understanding the structures we are reorganizing our perception of life around in the Feminine Power work if we didn’t call it Feminine? Because, actually, what we are essentially talking about balance: beckoning forth our masculine qualities when we need to be organized to build a structure and feminine in service to providing creative thought and inspiration to the overall vision and artistic details.
My husband was very relieved when I explained it all to him in this way and we have now both become much more balanced as individuals and our relationship echoes the same balance of power and inspiration.
For more information about Feminine Power coaching with Marilyn Hager Adleman, visit www.EmpowerYourFeminine.com or call 310.844.7548 for a complimentary 30-minute consultation.
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